Me
I recently wrote a post about a snarky comment from a reader on one of my “6 Word Memoirs” and even though I wrote about not changing the post because of the comments; if I’m honest my initial reaction was that of having someone yell at me in line at the super market for accidentally brushing into them – apologetic, shrinking away, cowering. I stayed away from that site for a couple of days, even though I was really enjoying the posts and coming up with my own.
When you put yourself out there, show your cards and share yourself, you are not going to please everyone; some people don’t agree with my point of view and some people are just horribly unhappy and want to share that with everyone else.
By nature I am a people pleaser and this is going to be a challenge to my psyche to take the criticism, constructive or destructive, that will inevitably come by putting myself and my thoughts out into the world.
But, this is also making me look at my own behavior and I have to admit I can be snarky and negative with the best of them, though I hope I don’t attack or bully people. But even that, I am sure I have probably done, at some point. I am going to work on that part of myself, what is the saying, “you are what you put into the world” or something like that or maybe its “you get, what you give”? Anyway, I hope you understand what I mean.
I don’t want to perpetuate the negative in the world and my world starts with me and the people around me. From today forward I am “banning the snarking” and a positive approach will be my reaction to every situation even the unhappy or difficult ones, because the only thing I can control is my reaction to what happens around me and to me. I will approach a problem or difficult situation with an eye to solving it in a positive and constructive way. No more negative, bashing, snarky responses that get me and those involved no where.
Now, I know this is easier said than done, as they say, but I am going to consciously try to be more positive in my approach to every situation and I’m “banning the snarky”. Wish me luck.
Do you have any helpful tips for getting through life’s difficulties with a positive approach?
Random & Rhyme 
They say we should be kind to everyone we meet, for we do not know what battles people are struggling with. I’m endeavoring to understand people’s actions and words– their motives and reasoning behind doing what they do, and saying the things they say. I think it’s tough to try and see things from an unfamiliar perspective, but failing that the mere effort and want to understand can better us as humans.. at least, that’s what I’m starting to believe, anyway.
My name’s edith, btw. I enjoy reading your thoughts and view of things. 🙂
Hi Edith; thank you for stopping by and taking the time to read some stories. I totally agree with you – kindness should always be where we start with everyone. Being mean and sharing hate just gets us more of the same. It can be hard to understand that opposing point of view sometimes but if we try and we respond with kindness it will always be better than responding with hate. Hope you have a great day.
Charmed by Simplicity – Random & Rhyme