Cal Fussman wrote his dream “interview” for his What I’ve Learned column in Esquire. He pulled quotes and attributions to the wonderful author Gabriel Garcia Marquez who passed away last week. Here are a few of my favorites from the “interview”
“Then the writing became so fluid that I sometimes felt as if I were writing for the sheer pleasure of telling a story, which may be the human condition that most resembles levitation.”
The problem in public life is learning to overcome terror; the problem in married life is learning to overcome boredom.
The day shit is worth money, poor people will be born without an asshole.
All human beings have three lives: public, private, and secret.
To all, I would say how mistaken they are when they think that they stop falling in love when they grow old, without knowing that they grow old when they stop falling in love..
Age isn’t how old you are but how old you feel.”
I wasn’t introduced to the works of the 1982 Nobel prize winner until later in life, but enjoyed them more as an adult, with a bit of perspective, I think.
There is another great “What I’ve Learned” column from Mr. Fussman with Ben Cohen and Jerry Greenfield that I really enjoyed as well.
These columns got me thinking about what I’ve learned, so here it is my collected wisdom;
With a little time nothing is as terrible, upsetting or maddening as it seems.
Work hard and things will work out.
I am not as smart as I would like nor as dumb as I feel.
If you find someone you love who truly loves you back; never let go, no matter how bad things seem in the moment.
Always take care of your teeth. (this was one of the last pieces of advise from my Grandma Buddy and it’s good advice)
If the question is: Get a puppy? or Not get a puppy? Always get a puppy!
Never stop searching for what you love to do in work, in life and in love.
Never take your good fortune for granted for fortune comes along very infrequently.
What have you learned?